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| Krazed Addicted Master | I HATE I HATE I HATE I don't hate many people in the world, but I truley hate my mother in law! There are for many reasons but to many to go into detail about. This woman has called me TRAILER TRASH behind my back to Shane, said that I am a sorry mother, and that I have no morals. This is all because after putting up with her shit for 9 years, I finally snapped back at her, and decided to not take her shit anymore! She also basically told Shane that I wear the pants in the family, and as long as he and I were together her grandchildren would never know her. That is Bullshit! They are the only family my kids know, because they see them all the time. Then Shane told me that the only reason why his mother is so pissed off with me, is because I went home for Mikayla's Birthday in Septemeber! That we should have stayed with her since she hadn't seen the kids in 2 months! I told Shane, well did she ever think of the fact that NOBODY else has seen the kids since December of 2004!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Where she had seen them in July of 2005!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! She seen them, December 2004, Feb. 2005, March 2005, May 2005, July 2005, September 2005. Noone else had seen them till we went home in September! BULLSHIT! I can't stand that BITCH! Just needed to vent!
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| Sexy Party Coordinator | aw I am so sorry hon. My sister has the same sort of problems with her mother in law and I know how frustrating it gets. Dont let it get to you too much though. You love your husband and your kids and you are a good person, wife, and mother to them.
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| Sock Violater Site Owner | Crazy Bitch ....Have her sign up on HoC!!!! ![]()
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| Bam's Bish Site Owner | I know the woman Teresa, and I can honestly say that you and I may be over protective mothers but we would NEVER be as bad as that woman. let me just tell you alittle about what she did to daniel *fuckingstupidassnocountbitch* Mikelle, shane, shanes son Morgan, and shanes parents were all going out to dinner one night WELL, daniel wanted to go with his aunt Mickey as she is his world, but according to shanes mom, daniel wasnt concidered family and so he wasnt allowed to go. All hell broke loose in me, but I kept my cool. I have never liked the woman since. And that isnt even the worst of things. Mikelle is just venting about recently. She has put up with this shit for the past 9 years. *shakes head*
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| Krazed Addicted Master | This is the same woman that told me 4 days after having my twins that if I didn't give my husband sex, he would go elsewhere to get it, not to worry about what the doctor said, that I would be fine, I only had stitches. The same woman that told me after having Mikayla that Shane cheated on me all throughout our relationship with his x-wife (turned out to be NOT true), and the same woman who never has anything nice to say about me to anyone. For 8 years I have kissed her ass, and for 8 years I have bit my lip, crying on the inside, because I honestly don't know what I ever did to piss this woman off other than marry her son, and for once, I stick up for myself and tell her off! I LITERALLY told her off, and now everything wrong with the family is MY FAULT, I am trailer trash, I have no morals, I don't take care of my kids, I abuse my kids, yeah, she even went that far! I am seriously thinking, is it worth it to go to jail! Is me driving 6 hours to Ohio to literally kick her ass worth it! Then, I got to thinking, and I might as well do what I am being accused of, I have decided to keep my husband and children from seeing her. We were suppose to go their this weekend for her Birthday, and I told Shane lastnight, or the day before that one, that I was not going and neither were our children. He actually agreed with me I was shocked. Now she is all pissed off that we can't come, but in all truth, we don't have the money to make it their with gas. I am not breaking my wallet to the last penny, because she is to sorry to come and visit here herself! We are going their for Thanksgiving, and I let it known that the only reason to why Shane the girls and I were even coming was because Shane's grandparents are going to be there and they haven't seen the kids since last Thanksgiving. Other than that, I wouldn't go! I so can not wait to get back to Virginia. I am not ever leaving the state again!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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| Krazed Addicted Master | don't let it get to ya hun ![]() but no worries... as soon as you get to Virginia, you'll have even more distance between you and the wicked witch of Ohio
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| Krazed Addicted Master | I know, and I can't wait. She actually offered to help, like I am going to let all 3 of my kids stay with that fucking HAG!!!!! She wants to keep them from the time we leave her house from Thanksgiving, till we go back through on December 12-15 to head back to Virginia. um,
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| #1 Derek Wrangler Administrator | yeah my mom put up with the same stuff for almost 30 years before my dad ever stuck up for her ![]() i remember telling my mom to divorce him when i was little because of all the fights they had over what his parents would say to/about her. i mean, more than half of their marrige, they either lived WITH or RIGHT BESIDE my dads parents... but they called her "stupid german farm girl" which would equate to trailer trash in todays world lol. they always made fun of her. her clothes, her hair, wether or not she shaved often enough (litterally would ask "did you shave your legs today?"), and the way she treated us grand kids ... i'm gonna go start a rant thread of my own... ![]()
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| Sexy Party Coordinator | Your situation just makes me realize all the more how lucky I am. My husbands family is seriously my family too. I love them and they love me. I never have to worry about stuff like that. I am so lucky.
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| Krazed Addicted Master | Shane is not an only child. His mother has 2 children, and like she told me, taking care of 3 kids is nothing especially with traveling on the road because she had 2 children and a dog! I was like, how could you even compare taking care of a dog to taking care of a child. I had never had issues or problems with Shane's mother until we moved to Illinois, and because Shane and I don't drive the 5-6 hours (with no traffic) 8-9 hours with traffic, 2 times a month, she wound up blaming me and only me for it. I retaliated by telling her that she had no idea what it was like to travel with 3 kids, much less 3 sick kids, so don't bother looking for an answer other than that, and my reply was that of the above. Shane and I talked about it tonight, and he told me that I only have to deal with her for a little over a month right now and then from that point on it will be when they visit us in Virginia. I told him that I love him with all my heart, but the woman is not staying in our house when she comes to visit. I should have known that something was seriously wrong with the woman, because Shane's sister recently married and since they have been married, Todd has banned the mother from even entering the house. Seems like I am not the only one having to deal! ![]()
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| Krazed Addicted Master | Quote:
ME TOO! My motto is, as long as you are happy and that is what you want. If my children are happy and as long as they are not getting hurt, then I will have no problems at all! Teresa you remember my neighbor the one that I always complained about because she would never leave Shane and I alone. Shane's mother is 100 times worse! ![]()
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